Episode 8: Meaningful Moments: Now and Later
As parents, we all strive to create meaningful moments with our kids. But what happens when those moments don’t seem to connect with the bigger picture? Welcome to this reflection inspired by the "Autism Clarified" podcast, where Jacquelene unpacks the idea that while meaningful moments are critical, they sometimes aren’t enough—unless they’re connected to future growth.
In this episode, Jacquelene shares her story about working with Billy, a sweet 3-year-old learning prepositions. Sure, teaching him to place blocks "on" or "under" things was a meaningful task. But the question remains: When will those moments truly matter? For Billy, the challenge was making these lessons connect to real-life contexts where prepositions play a role, like engaging in social play with others. Without that connection, these moments, though meaningful in the short term, wouldn't fully support his growth in the long run.
Here are three takeaways from Jacqueline’s podcast that every parent should consider:
1. Plan with the End in Mind
It’s crucial to think long-term. The moments you share with your child now are seeds you plant for future growth. Whether you're teaching them life skills or working on their social engagement, always keep the end goal in mind. What you do today should be connected to where you want your child to be tomorrow.
2. Meaningful Moments Need to Lead Somewhere
Jacqueline draws a beautiful comparison between therapy goals and a road trip. Just like a journey with fun stops along the way, each milestone—whether it’s handwriting, independent bathroom use, or sensory awareness—matters. Celebrate those small victories, but remember that they’re part of a bigger picture.
3. Challenge Yourself to Think Differently
In the Create More Connections challenge, Jacquelene emphasizes that we sometimes need to step back and question our methods. Are we making the most of these moments? Are we challenging ourselves to connect today’s actions with future outcomes? She encourages parents to take on a challenge not just with their child, but with their own thinking.
Ultimately, it’s about making sure that those precious, meaningful moments today are setting the stage for long-term success and connection.
If you're ready to dive deeper into how to create connections that truly matter now and later, Create More Connections is the perfect opportunity to gain insights, coaching, and strategies. Whether your child is 3 or 13, this challenge helps you map out a journey of growth that makes each step meaningful and relevant.
Sign up for the next Create More Connections Challenge on October 1st, and remember: the meaningful moments you nurture today can be the foundation for a lifetime of growth and connection.
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